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How Many Dates Should You Have Before You Have Sex?
Written by Erica Lauren   
Wednesday, 02 June 2010 13:59

Well, for starters, there are no “rules.”  The issue, though, can be what are the implied expectations?  Wait too long and you’re in the friend zone.  Rush it, and the other person may feel used.  Some popular thought mentions date number three as the perfect date to have sex for the first time.  And some feel why not do it on date number one and find out right away if there’s sexual chemistry?   You might be very surprised to know that I would pick date number nine as the perfect date to have sex for the first time.  Now let me tell you why.

Last Updated on Wednesday, 02 June 2010 15:10
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Cheating: What Really Defines It?
Written by Erica Lauren   
Wednesday, 21 April 2010 17:32

Cheating.  Everyone has been affected by it.  Maybe you were the “cheater.”  Maybe you were the one cheated on.  It’s been said that men and women cheat for different reasons:  men because of “opportunity” and women often because of not feeling emotionally connected to their partner.  Reasons are many, of course, and to add to that cheating is defined differently depending on who you talk to.  Some people believe that only the act of intercourse is cheating, yet others believe an “emotional affair” is cheating.  Some people “get bent out of shape” when their partner watches porn.  So what the heck is cheating anyway?

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Sex Addiction: Is It “Real”?
Written by Erica Lauren   
Monday, 05 April 2010 13:49
I do believe that there are people with sex addiction.  But I don’t believe that all the people who claim to have this affliction really do.  Getting caught cheating on one’s partner and then claiming to have a sex addiction is just a little too convenient.  It’s as if to say, “I just couldn’t help myself.”  And then to go off to rehab…it looks like you want to change and you get to spend some time in a protected environment removed from prying people.  
Last Updated on Monday, 05 April 2010 14:04
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Life In A Glass House: You Can’t Throw Stones But It’s A Hell Of A View!
Written by Erica Lauren   
Friday, 19 March 2010 16:36
I’m finding out that I need to do more than fuck…I have to write blogs now!  Lol! I’m gonna do my best as I write these to share my thoughts and crazy sense of humor with you.  Although, almost oddly enough, this makes me feel a bit more exposed than taking off my clothes.  Now you’ll really get to know me and I don’t want to change your mind about liking me!  Now I’m panicking because if I’m not interesting enough, then what?  No pressure. You’ll just have to picture me laughing as I write this.  Okay.  The ramblings continue…
Last Updated on Friday, 19 March 2010 16:39
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Getting Personal…About My Very Own Sexual Experiences

I know you want to know, so here it is…Some juicy intimate details about some of my personal sexual experiences that I’ve never shared before.

When I was a teenager, sex for me was something I thought I had to wait for until I was emotionally mature, in love, and preferably, according to my parents...married.  So, I spent hours  as a teenager just “making out” with boys with my clothes on, and dry humping.  My panties would get dripping wet.  I could have an orgasm just from deep kissing.

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